Dominance/submission – Dom takes pleasure or erotic enjoyment out of dominating submissive. In BDSM relationship the dominance relationship the power to make decisions and give others in consensual dominance by coercion or force to the victim. An interest in BDSM is a peraphillia and as such the stimulus that brings on sexual arousal in an individual will vary from person to person – such as objectivation and sexual humiliation will be a huge turn on whilst the thought of being caned by a Dom does nothing to them at all while the reverse might be the case.
